It must be very obvious that an only way you will get to know any girl is sitting down and knowing some good questions to ask a girl. Many people suggest remembering “date questions” like, “If you were the flavor of any ice cream, then which one it would be?” however these questions aren’t good. They all sound plain bad and rehearsed in the normal conversation. They won’t help you to get anywhere with a girl.
You must not put all your efforts to such stupid questions. You just have to talk to a girl in a natural way. Guys memorize some stupid questions as crutch to deal in feelings of anxiety or nervousness that they get while thinking about good questions to ask a girl. Using bunch of some scripted questions may just build up wall between you and a girl. So, stop thinking too much and be present on what is happening in a moment with her. While you take genuine interest in a girl experience in present moment, then you will not be left thinking what to speak about again.
Many men just ask questions, which are answered with “yes” or “no”. Suppose it is a thing you do, then stop. This can just make you appear weird like you are the reporter interviewing her. You can try to use open ended questions that will allow her to put some effort in your conversation. What is one best thing about your neighborhood? – There is just so much of history of that place! It is so interesting.
You are probably getting an idea now.
Ask a girl about her life or other experiences. Get better knowledge of what she feels about her. Start drilling down deeper in her feelings and emotions just by asking girl questions such as “How did it make you feel?” or “What was it when ___ happened?” See how she reacts when she will describe these things and go down on those as well. Ask her a few things “You seemed a bit worried when you talked about your job. Can you tell more about it?” You may also help a girl to discover new things about herself, which she didn’t even know.
When you do this, you will start to feel intense connection that can make it appear like you are in the bubble with her, alone from the world. You may be at a craziest club around, however two of you can feel like you’re totally isolated from everybody else and in the world of just yours. Now isn’t this the huge improvement from only scraping by asking some questions like “What’s your favorite movie?”.
Please leave those annoying questions to the online surveys that your friends have send you. Just come in interaction totally present and let things take a root of their own. Thus, feel totally free to ask about anything that you actually want, as long as you’re truthfully interested in an answer.